Ten Things I Didn’t Know About Bottle Feeding

How to feed your child is one of the most important things to think about when you’re pregnant. For us, it was a choice we made after considering what would work best for us as a family. We’ve never breastfed here. For Eden, it’s been bottles since day one. Here’s ten things I didn’t know about bottle feeding before we embarked on this adventure.

1. Not all bottles are created equal. 

Anti colic? Self sterilising? Natural flow? Wide neck? Narrow Neck? Glass? Metal? Plastic? Disposable? All on the market! As a mum-to-be I was so confused by all the different types of bottle! What I leant, though, is that it’s not up to me. It’s up to Eden.

We bought a LOT of Tommee Tippee bottles. They’re the ‘market leader’ apparently, so we figured Eden would like them. Plus, they come in pretty colours. What’s not to like? So… yeah… Eden didn’t like them. She became skilled in turning the teats inside out within seconds and then crying because she couldn’t get milk. We ended up trying a bottle that we had received for free at The Baby Show called “The Latch”, which is made by Munchkin. Immediately things changed. She got on SO much better with these. Consequently we had to go out and buy all of those bottles. The Tommee Tippee ones are still gathering dust in her wardrobe.

2. Real advice on bottle feeding is hard to come by. 

With the Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative meaning that many hospitals now are not “allowed” to “promote” bottles, dummies or anything “artificial” in the quest for more mothers breastfeeding, coming by advice about bottle feeding is near impossible. In our situation, we were formula feeding and needed advice about that. You would think we had asked for advice on how to break all of Eden’s bones! When Eden was five days old, I asked a midwife who visited us at home how much she should be drinking. She told us “just feed her until she’s sick. Then you’ll know she’s had enough.” BAD advice! “Baby Friendly” hospitals over here  in the UK are not allowed to speak to families about formula. Not allowed to provide safety information or talk about how much baby should be drinking. Just “breast is best”. Helpful, yes? Thankfully, the hospital Eden was born at did give some helpful advice and did support our choice.

3. You can’t second guess the baby.

Baby drank two ounces in the last feed? You’d think you’d be safe to make two ounces again, right? NOPE! This time she wants three, or just one. And she will screeeeeeam until she gets it. I lose track of the amount of milk that heads off down the sink because Eden decided she wasn’t as hungry this time, or that amount of times I’m running for the formula can because she decided she wants more. They like to keep us on our toes, these small folk.

4. Teat size!

I did not know this was a thing. I looked at my starter pack of bottles and thought “size one? Size two? What does it mean? Turns out baby needs different teat sizes depending on their development stage and on the type of milk. For example, once we put Eden on reflux milk we had to move up a teat size as it’s thicker and therefore needed a bigger hole to pass through. We recently moved Eden up to size three teats as she started falling asleep drinking through the size two and she’s happy as ever. There are also apparently variflow teats, but they’re not available for the brand we use.

5. Sterilising… 

Sterilising is the bane of my existence. It’s super important because of delicate little tummies, but MAN! Pushing everything into the steriliser and waiting for it to finish, then baby wants feeding and the steriliser and contents are still hot as hell, so you almost take off a finger trying to pluck out a bottle. Occupational hazards I guess!

6. You’re not the only one who can feed.

This is my favourite thing about bottle feeding. You’re not on the clock. You can hand baby to someone else to feed while you take a shower or eat something. For the first two months or so of Eden’s life me and Amy fed her exclusively. We did that for bonding reasons and because we wanted to get used to her and her get used to us. Plus, she had reflux so I didn’t feel the need to let anyone else be covered with vomit. Nowadays, anyone can give her her bottle. It’s very helpful.

7. Full Bag syndrome.

You need to lug around a fair bit of stuff if you’re bottle feeding. Bottles, formula, water… They all take up valuable space in the changing bag. We found a formula dispenser makes a great deal of difference as we can then carry pre-measured helpings of formula powder. Originally we were using the individual pots and that was always a faff!

8. Babies don’t always like their bottles warm.

A lot of people think you must always warm baby’s bottle. It’s a myth. Sometimes I think Eden prefers her bottles relatively cold as she always snarfs them down when we are out and about. Most of the necessity to warm comes from making bottles fresh with boiling water, but baby will always have a preference too. Some like them as hot as they can get without burning, some prefer a cool beverage. Others (like Eden!) change her preferences like the wind.

9. All formula is essentially the same.

The very best advice I got was from my hospital website. “All formulas have to reach a minimum standard, and independent evidence shows that there is very little significant difference between the formula brands.” (St Thomas’ Hospital) The advice was basically to buy the most cost effective and then work out what baby liked from there. We started on Cow and Gate and eventually moved on to Cow and Gate anti-reflux because of Eden’s reflux. But we have also tried Hipp Organic since and used a Carobel thickener with it, which she seems to like too. It’s about what works for you and baby in the case of formula.

10. You’re doing a great job.

Feeding a baby at first is challenging, however you are doing it. It is one of the top “mummy war” type conversations, so just know that however you feed your baby, whether that be bottle, breast or tube fed, whether you’re feeding them formula milk, breast milk or you’re combination feeding, you are doing a great job and you are a great mum.

 

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12 Responses to Ten Things I Didn’t Know About Bottle Feeding

  1. yummyblogger says:

    Handy post for other bottle feeders… Some of it sounds so complicated!! I breastfed last time and hope to do it again which takes away quite a bit of logistical stress!! We did start topping up with formula from about 4 months and you’ve reminded me now about burning fingers on the steriliser lol!
    Nice to find your blog via #KCALOLS

  2. dotmakes4 says:

    This is a really handy post! I wish you had written this when Mikey was little. I was 20 and was pretty much lead by what was promoted at the time.
    I’ve printed this off and given it to my sister in law who is expecting her first baby!

    Laura xx
    Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next Sunday 🙂

  3. kbperry says:

    Perfect advice!!! We switched to store-brand formula at 3 months and it has been so great for our budget! We also love the travel dispenser for thr formula, fits in any bag. Wonderful post!!!!

  4. pinkpearbear says:

    It’s so interesting to hear from this point of view. I felt an enormous amount of pressure to breastfeed, (mainly from myself!), and found that the advice was seriously lacking there, so maybe it’s just that hospitals are rubbish at advice in general! However you do it, as long as your baby is happy and healthy, you’re winning at parenting in my book! #bigpinklink

  5. Siena Says says:

    I loved this post. It’s so great to read a positive view of bottle feeding. I bottle fed both of mine as I wasn’t ‘allowed’ to breastfeed because of medication. I was completely fine with it because the decision was taken out of my hands. There as so much of this post that I was nodding my head at. The choice of bottles, the teat conundrum etc. We spent ages heating bottles for our eldest only to realise that she as quite happy to have it room temp. So of course with number 2 we just went straight to room temp!

    Good for you for writing this, you can feel a bit on your own with bottle-feeding sometimes!!

    #bigpinklink

  6. Julie S. says:

    Lugging arounnd all the bottle feeding supplies was crazy sometimes. We never used a sterilizer, just soap and water.
    #KCACOLS

  7. you are right, there isn’t a lot of advice for bottle feeding. we were lucky that b was fine with tommee tippee and fine with aptimel! #KCACOLS

  8. Tracey @ One Frazzled Mum says:

    I bottle fed my daughter too and the hospital was really supportive of my choice. They asked, I answered and that was that. My daughter loved cold bottles and Tommee Tippee ones too #kcacols

  9. I’ve bottle and breast fed both my girls and found them both difficult for different reasons. Bottles take a lot of preparation, but I found once I got in the swing of it we did fine. Now my youngest is over one I almost miss it 😉 #KCACOLS

  10. Tori says:

    Great post. I started formula last month, and feel like I always get the amount of ounces wrong! Glad I’m not the only one who throws a lot away. xx

  11. Sometimes, I just think people in hospitals don’t know what they’re talking about, haha. I breastfeed, and my son was born in a baby-friendly hospital, and they were giving me some of the worst advice on the planet. They also told me not to introduce any artificial nipples until he was over a month old and you could imagine my heartbreak when I realized that was too long, and my son refused EVERY bottle on the market. #KCACOLS

  12. Asahela says:

    Great and helpful post x

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